A Fascination with Tragedy
On Monday of this week (4/16/07) the world changed for everyone of us. For the 33 people who died on the Virginia Tech University campus, it changed irrevocably. For their friends and families, it changed tragically and deeply. For the University Community, it changed the way college will happen there for a long time. For those who responded to the events on campus, there will be an extensive time of Critical Incident Stress Management (CISM) debriefing to help them handle what they lived through. For the rest of us across this country, the change will be more shortlived and more easily dealt with emotionally and factually, but we will still always remember that day, just as we remember the 9/11 attacks.
Like the media, we will discuss and re-discuss each moment of the events, and we will question the decisions made by everyone involved and try and find fault or blame somewhere, because our minds cannot or will not accept that these events could have happened without someone being at fault--and it certainly wasn't us. None of the professors or students should have died, and the killer should have been found out and been in treatment long ago. It's just not right that it could have happened without someone to blame.
But let me suggest that while there may have been mistakes on an individual level or perhaps on an institutional level that might possibly have prevented this from happening, the primary fault lies with all of us--our culture--our growing humanist view of life and the world. I wil grant you that I look on all of this from the viewpoint of the faith community, and specifically the Christian Faith Community, but I could cynically say that I saw this kind of event coming. Not this specific event, but one like it.
The older I get, the more I see the civility of community and neighborhood and friendship being eroded on the altar of "me firstism." Front porches are a thing of the past, replaced by tall privacy fences; "quid pro quo" has become a religious phrase; and the center of the universe has become wherever I am at any given moment. We--you and I--were created for the purpose of being in community with God. Read the creation story in the book of Genesis. Whether you think that is history or allegory, the point is the same. God created us to be companions and we try our darndest to not be. God even offered His Son, Jesus, to help bring us back, and we continue to mock his decision.
Instead of fixing blame, we ought to be re-thinking our priorities in the lives we are living and get back to trying to be companions of Christ. Then we can be good friends with the world, and something like the events of this week might be avoided again.
Pastor Realff Ottesen
